if they throw your past at you, that’s not love

This might save you from one of the biggest mistakes people make in relationships. In two minutes, you’ll understand something most couples never even realise until it’s too late. Let’s go. We talk a lot about vulnerability these days. So much that it has become a buzzword. Many use it as virtue signalling, pretending it’s … Read more

how to keep the spark alive in your relationship (part 1)

The eternal question: how do you keep desire alive in a long-term relationship? Love and desire don’t always go hand in hand. In fact, sometimes they seem like sworn enemies. Have you ever been in a long-term relationship where you love your partner deeply, yet desire seems to vanish as if commitment has suffocated it? … Read more

If they don’t get jealous, do they really love you?

We’ve all heard it before: “If your partner gets jealous, it’s because they love you.” Sounds romantic, right? As if jealousy itself were some kind of proof of deep devotion. But is it really? Now, really? Or is it actually a sign of something much darker, fear, insecurity, control? And not darker in a romantasy … Read more

Love won’t make your relationship last

We’ve all heard it before: love conquers all. Love, we’re told, is the ultimate force, the magic ingredient that makes relationships thrive. If you love someone, everything else will fall into place. Right? Right? Riiiiiiight? Well, ha ha ha ha. Not quite. But it’s Valentine’s Day, why are you ruining this? I have a mission, … Read more

We think it’s love, but in reality, it’s manipulation

What I’m going to share with you today is something that happens all the time in our relationships. With our friends, our partners, family or co-workers. Everybody. That’s why I knew exactly where the story was going when I stumbled upon my neighbour. I usually go around hiding from my neighbours, trying to avoid every … Read more

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