how to keep the spark alive in your relationship (part 1)

The eternal question: how do you keep desire alive in a long-term relationship? Love and desire don’t always go hand in hand. In fact, sometimes they seem like sworn enemies. Have you ever been in a long-term relationship where you love your partner deeply, yet desire seems to vanish as if commitment has suffocated it? … Read more

If they don’t get jealous, do they really love you?

We’ve all heard it before: “If your partner gets jealous, it’s because they love you.” Sounds romantic, right? As if jealousy itself were some kind of proof of deep devotion. But is it really? Now, really? Or is it actually a sign of something much darker, fear, insecurity, control? And not darker in a romantasy … Read more

Love won’t make your relationship last

We’ve all heard it before: love conquers all. Love, we’re told, is the ultimate force, the magic ingredient that makes relationships thrive. If you love someone, everything else will fall into place. Right? Right? Riiiiiiight? Well, ha ha ha ha. Not quite. But it’s Valentine’s Day, why are you ruining this? I have a mission, … Read more

error: