The eternal question: how do you keep desire alive in a long-term relationship? Love and desire don’t always go hand in hand. In fact, sometimes they seem like sworn enemies. Have you ever been in a long-term relationship where you love your partner deeply, yet desire seems to vanish as if commitment has suffocated it? … Read more
We’ve all heard it before: “If your partner gets jealous, it’s because they love you.” Sounds romantic, right? As if jealousy itself were some kind of proof of deep devotion. But is it really? Now, really? Or is it actually a sign of something much darker, fear, insecurity, control? And not darker in a romantasy … Read more
We’ve all heard it before: love conquers all. Love, we’re told, is the ultimate force, the magic ingredient that makes relationships thrive. If you love someone, everything else will fall into place. Right? Right? Riiiiiiight? Well, ha ha ha ha. Not quite. But it’s Valentine’s Day, why are you ruining this? I have a mission, … Read more
A few weeks ago, I invited you to send in your burning questions about life, personal growth, or whatever psychology-related question you might have. As I told you, I would choose some questions, the ones I considered could help everyone best, or themes that frequently arise in my sessions, as these are topics we all … Read more
During the past few weeks, before and after the turn of the year, we have all been bombarded with one thing: Setting your New Year’s resolutions. Writing your intentions for the new year. Manifesting your dream life and casting the list of manifestations. The pressure is there, along with the brutal force of marketing. I … Read more
Loneliness: the inevitable price of being human Loneliness. Yeah, I said it. One of those feelings we all experience but would rather avoid talking about. It’s uncomfortable, a bit scary, and let’s be honest, not exactly Instagram-friendly. But it’s there. Oh, it is there. And here’s the thing: loneliness isn’t just some random glitch in … Read more